Over 40 black interracial dating
“Brown skin and darker skinned black women are actually getting asked out quite a bit by Caucasian men.” And it appears the trend is growing.
Kugel says there could be a number of reasons: shifting beauty standards, high profile couples and characters like Olivia Pope on “Scandal.” And even on the TV reality series “Love and the City,” Bershan Shaw found her true match expanding by her horizons.
But those women still struggle with a perceived stigma.
“They will say the black community is very patriarchal so while black men sort of have carte blanche to date whoever they want to date, as black women we’ll get a lot of backlash.” But Kugel says the black women who are able to overcome their nerves are often able to find lasting love.
Oprah Winfrey has encouraged black women to explore "what is out there." While the discussion includes men of all races and ethnicities, the focus is primarily on overcoming taboos against dating white men. Get over those old images of slavery and stop blaming every white man for sins perpetrated by others.
This means that 87% of Americans overall see no problem with black-white marriage, up from a meager 4% in 1958.
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