Dating site husband and friendship
Your mom is always going to be the mom who dated your husband.
You’re framing it as “” but your husband did just as much stealing and breaking of trust.
I am a 34 year old straight woman in an open marriage with a 39 year straight man.
I have taken far more advantage of the openness of our marriage than my husband, at least until recently.
I am drawn to men who are starkly different than my husband, who is an intellectual, moderate in terms of his vices and has a disdain for the type of men who spend every evening in a pub.
I have a drinking problem but it is not a problem I feel any need to resolve and I am drawn to men who are also drinkers like me.
I went to the toilet and threw up and then I dragged my lover out of the pub and went straight to the off-licence where I bought a litre bottle of vodka and drank it at his house until I passed out.
I can’t help but feeling betrayed by my mother and my husband.
These people haven’t even done you the courtesy of an honest conversation about what’s happening. Cool, okay, well, have a good day.”” “Husband, I saw you in the pub the other day, was that my mother?I have sneaked in the house and gone up to what used to be our bedroom and found my mother has moved all her clothes into the wardrobe and taken what I had left out and I have even seen a tube of lube on the bedside table (my mother is post menopausal).Seeing that made me hate her more than you can believe.My mother is the one having long talks with my husband at night, or going to a nice restaurant with him or the theatre and I am at a grubby pub every night with my alcoholic lover.I have started stalking them, sitting in the car down the street from our house, drinking vodka from the bottle, and watching them come out hand in hand to play tennis in the courts down the street or go out to dinner.