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When used negatively, a nice guy implies a male who is unassertive, does not express his true feelings and, in the context of dating (in which the term is often used Herold & Milhausen conclude that "the answer to the question 'Do nice guys finish last?' is complicated in that it is influenced both by the measurement instruments used and by subject characteristics." Studies that explicitly use the term "nice guy" sometimes cite research that does not directly use the term, but which addresses behaviours that are often associated with "niceness." One difficulty in studying the "nice guy" phenomenon is due to the ambiguity of the "nice guy" construct.In other words, women say that they want nice guys, but really go for men who are "jerks" or "bad boys" in the end.Stephan Desrochers claims, in a 1995 article in the journal Sex Roles, that many "sensitive" men, based on personal experience, do not believe women actually want "nice guys".
But the messages from Nice Guys are nowhere near as incredible as what they put on their profiles.Dawkins was misinterpreted by many as confirming the "nice guy finishing last" view, but refuted the claims in the BBC documentary Nice Guys Finish First.The "nice guys finish last" view is that there is a discrepancy between women's stated preferences and their actual choices in men.And if you don’t, you’re fodder for the Nice Guy’s extensive complaint box. But it’s pretty rare that in person – or at least on a date – you’re treated to a speech about how women don’t appreciate how Nice a guy is. And when they aren’t in blog comment sections, they’re trying to find love on online dating sites, and are mad because they are so nice and you should appreciate their personalities instead of being so shallow – even though, you know, you’re all on the internet and the only reason they’re messaging you is because they think you’re foxy.(Actual guys who are also nice exist, and in large numbers – a good indicator that you’ve spotted one is that he never whines about how women aren’t lining up to bang him because he held a door open. Like this clearly very Nice man, who sent the following to a lady on one dating site: Since you are DIVORCED, don’t have kids and don’t WANT kids you are obviously just looking for SEX. Clearly a Grade-A hussy, just trolling online dating sites for peen, and wasting the time of Nice Guys like him who see her profile and are then forced – FORCED!