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Before my dad was dating this woman I would always watch TV shows and even stay up late with my brother and dad most of the time.When it was just me and my father we would watch our favorite TV shows together. He is always hugging his girlfriend and kissing her around me.Your time alone with him and your brother was, of course, very special to you.Now, it must feel like there is an intruder in your life-one who is interfering with your relationship with your dad. Other children of divorced parents often share the same sorts of feelings.I find this gross and I'm really uncomfortable with this behavior.I can't believe I'm saying this but I want my old dad back the one that was nicer and who used to watch TV shows with with me. A Sad Teen Dear Teen, I really get it and I'm glad that you wrote to me.And it's not uncommon for dad's new girlfriend to be younger than his mom, and perhaps not many years older than the teen boy.Lots of teen boys in that situation can feel a whole range of jealousy Sad Teen did not mention.
And it didn't help that I got the impression (likely greatly exaggerated in hindsight) that she thought I was insignificant and sexually immature.
It seems to me that adults who divorce, and all the people who are quick to recommend a divorce, and who typically subscribe to the theory that kids are traumatized by parents who sleep with people other than their other biological parent when it's called an "affair", will then also subscribe to the theory that these same kids are instantly just fine with it and should show love and support for the new "lover" the very moment divorce papers are signed just because it is now "socially acceptable". Bad feelings about their parents' attention to new lovers can linger for many years.
It's too much to expect a child to go from supposedly being traumatized by a parent's affair lover to being open, loving, and accepting of a new lover at the mere stroke of a pen on a divorce paper.
G., I feel less close to my recently divorced dad ever since my dad has been dating.
We used to be much closer but now he's always with his girlfriend.