Buying a professional online dating profile
Most people take one of two wrong tacks when coming up with an online dating username: 1) Putting ZERO thought into it: Bill10247, Claire T, Ally Cat 2) Putting minimal thought into it, using a literal description: Tall Doctor, Gorgeous Goddess, Fun2Be Around The problem with these efforts, of course, is not that they’re “bad”, but rather that they’re BORING. All of them are plays off of real names, idioms or catchphrases, which is why they evoke smiles from readers.
There’s nothing unique, memorable or distinguishing. One of my favorite usernames was The Goose Whisperer, written for a client named Bobbi in 2005. So if you’re wondering how to come up with a clever name that gets attention, and attracts a like-minded person with a great sense of humor, I have an exercise that can help you come up with usernames just like the ones I mention above.
But, ultimately, if people don’t find your profile attractive, you’re not any better off than you were before. With a bad profile and Ok Cupid A-List, it’s possible you’ll just be rejected more and faster. Choosing profile pics this way has been known to increase Tinder matches by 200-400%.
On the other hand, it’s possible to be extremely successful on Ok Cupid’s free version if you have an optimized profile.
See other people’s answers to questions before you answer 3.
Your messages go to the top of everyone’s mailbox 4.
The street name carries connotations (like Soho in NYC), and it reflects the sort of person I am, the type of interests I have, etc.
it reflects that we have wildly different interests.
The price you get depends on factors like your gender, location, age, or attractiveness.
Reddit has examples of Ok Cupid users paying below /month, though that’s not typical. More search options (such as body type and attractiveness) 4.
Some sample prices in the ballpark of what you can expect: Basic A-List: .95/month for 1 month .95/month for 3 months .95/month for 6 months Premium A-List: .90/month per 1 month .90/month per 3 months .90/month per 6 months 1. See a full list of everyone who has already liked you 5.
You can visit profiles invisibly AND see your visitor’s list at the same time 6.