Advice dating good high junior need please
You might be worried about what other people will think, and that’s completely understandable.But in the end, all that matters is how you and this guy feel about each other.also, the advice about not name-dropping, and not being overly eager to know about sorority affiliation, should definitely be passed on.Originally posted by breathesgelatin When you go visit a college and attend a fraternity party, if you've never drank before in your life, DON'T CHOOSE THAT NIGHT TO START.When it comes to relationships, the thing that really matters if both people have a connection and make each other happy.That being said, I know that it might seem weird to date someone younger than you." This comes off as petty, as if you're not interested in meeting anyone except for their sorority affiliation. What you do this weekend, if it is stupid enough, can and will influence your recruitment. I have seen women break this rule over and over to their own detriment. while i think this is all good advice so far...i could relate to a lot of the situations breathesgelatin wrote about.
Those first few parties at fraternity houses can DEFINITELY influence whether or not you get a bid and from which house.
It can be hard to go against what society thinks is “normal”, but if you two really like each other, than you shouldn’t feel like you have to make your age an issue.
But while the age difference shouldn’t be a major issue, it’s still something to consider.
Every year, my college has two major weekends that freshmen visit: a scholarship weekend, an an accepted students day.
What you do this weekend, if it is stupid enough, can and will influence your recruitment. I have seen women break this rule over and over to their own detriment.