A black girl guide to dating a white man
Maybe we could be grab coffee or drinks or something? Don't say dorky things like "Black women have more flava" or bust into a freestyle rap.3. She says it's okay to cop to never dating a black chick if you want. Again, this could be a general dating tip, but when in the company of a different race it's only natural to have an opposing opinion when discussing certain topics.This is new territory for me, but I think it speaks volumes that I've already discovered that it comes with certain stereotypes attached.These are some of the stereotypes I've witnessed, along with things people have actually said to me, or things I've read online.It also could just be that black men appreciate women who don't have a certain body type.If the argument is that overweight white women go after black men because they can't get with white men, this demeans black men by insinuating that they are not as desirable as white men.
Last time we checked, a black woman was still a woman. In that case, resist the urge to think your way is automatically 'right' and theirs is 'different' (read: 'wrong'). You're on a date, remember, with another human being, remember.
I had a white guy tell me that “7.5 times out of 10, a white girl that's into black guys has very deep rooted daddy issues." What evidence there is to prove this, I don't know.
I happen to have a very good relationship with my father.
We know that there will always be people who will never accept interracial relationships and while we enjoy making those people squirm with discomfort, our dating preference is not a statement to change their narrow minds.
Of course, it's possible that a white woman had a traumatic experience with a white man, which makes her look to other races for love and stability in a relationship; but, this is not always the case.